Atleast you're talking. This is good. I'm gonna have to break it all down and reply to each point individually. I wanna point out that I apologised for how I started this out, and explained it wasn't meant to attack you. I've made a few things sound different to how I meant, but I will clear them up
Dictator wrote:And I'll say once more and go to practice mode for the 3rd time that point blank KFs d1 still whiffs because of distance after DDs D1 on block.
I'll go re-check tomorrow, incase I am delusional. I hope you didn't half-test this shit by just d1ing and trying to d1 him back when he'd returned to neutral.
Dictator wrote:Who are these people you talk about? I only know about you and taco. Anyone else? There was Santrax once but you probably don't know of him.
The people who have had these thoughts? I'd say the story tells itself. You complain nobody wants to get better, people aren't serious about levelling up. They say they wanna get better but aren't willing to do what it takes right? Hardly anyone played you, people didn't listen to you or follow your advice on the rare ocassions they did play you. You see it as people didn't want to get better because they weren't willing to learn, I see it as people wanted to get better, but didn't want to learn in only the way you thought was best for them to do so. Everyone wants to get better, even Emelie and she cares less about the games than all of us. I remember the cross-over punish thread I made.. it had quite an enthusiastic start to it, people were interested and then you came along and shat on everything with "don't bother, its online, only this works and that works". You killed it before we even started. I asked your advice and I got it alright. Only it wasn't advice, it was instruction again. Inflexible. Dan made a really good effort and brought us something to discuss but it was too late. Nobody was interested after you shut it down. Consequently you were right, online is bullshit and things I wanted to work on weren't viable. I wouldnt have it at the time though, saying your explanation was BS because you do it all the time. What did I get in response to that? You might aswell have said "do as I say, not as I do". Oaken hit the nail on the head when he said something along the lines of "Its different when I fight you Ruby.. I'm always conscious and I feel like im expected to perform. It don't feel like mates having casuals and it affects how I play". How many of us have felt like this? You said to me you annoy everyone, as I stated before. I can keep going dude. This is all evidence of how people feel.. It ain't like you think, people havn't all been bitching about you behind your back, all you have to do is read the story, and read the subtext of what they say.
I'm going to be straight with all of you, and this is drected at everyone reading this section. If you wanna get better at video games and fighting games especially, Ruby's way is best. Fight him often, and repetetively, learn the numbers, and do what he says, how he says it. If you are serious about just levelling up and getting better, this is the best and fastest way to do it. If you want to learn how to improve your own ability to teach yourself in general and move forward at your own pace, where the people who have more experience to guide you can help you to see the answers yourself instead of giving them to you to, then my way is better.
The main difference, Ruby? Your way breeds armies, my way breeds free-thinking, intelligent people. Oh they won't be as good at video games, but they'll be happier and less dependent on someone else to make them strong.
Dictator wrote:I don't know where you got that boogeyman dictatorship idea
You really can't see it? I think I made a pretty good case for it above.
Dictator wrote:but if anyone hasn't spoken their mind is not because of intimidation but intention. There were plenty of people to speak openly against me during all 3 periods when we had a flood of new members. And allow me to tell you I'm not the only one people hush about. People hush because of friendship, friendship is all about co-existing with your friends because you like them, even if they have their flaws. If someone feels violated by what I do then all they have to do is speak. I have told almost every member this individually because of all the general drama this clan had, not about me btw.
Far be it from me to speak directly for anyone else but I see that most didn't speak up because of the status-quo. They didn't feel it was worth upsetting it because of how confrontational and defensive you can be, but tensions build over time until BAM, everything gets blown out of proportion. I doubt anyone thought it would be worth the drama, but I do. If you wanna preserve friendship, truth and integrity do that. Not bottled up feelings. People don't rock the boat over little things, and some people can feel like they're the one with the problem for feeling like they do about the little things, but that's how they build up. There's a million reasons to not speak up, only a few to do so. Its things like trust and respect that preserve friendship. I would hope any friend of mine would disagree with me and challenge me on anything if he felt I was wrong, and I would hope he would respect the fact that he could be just as wrong as he thinks I am..
Dictator wrote:I don't remember ever being asked by you why I didn't tell you this clan was (is) dead. Yesterday you asked me if I was moving on to XBL, if I'm planning on selling my PS3 and why I'm leaving the clan hanging.
You're right, I didn't directly ask you about the clan being dead. I meant to, but I took your leaving for XBL to be the reason why the clan was dead, and your answer to why you didn't announce your leaving to be the reason you didn't announce the clan's official death.
Dictator wrote:I didn't know you were under the illusion that this clan wasn't dead, that was and still is a well spread fact even by the former leader of the clan. I will apologise though for telling it to an applicant, incase loog or anyone else wanted to take over and rebuild the clan.
The logic here just eludes me. You said you intended to pick the clan back up. You started to with that thread and those people you sent here. Reflections and I mentioned about a whole clan reboot and you IGNORED us. Loog had no idea BoP was dead either.. We were all waiting for you, but you didn't think we even deserved to KNOW? Its clear none of us knew, so idk whats up with that "under the illusion" statement.
Dictator wrote:What is this sentence that if I go to XBL I'll only visit once in a while and not stay friends? I specifically told you it only takes me 50 seconds tops to reconnect my PS3 back in. If anyone is left hanging about Injustice then I will reply and if anyone wants help with a matchup then I'll gladly assist even though I know my offer won't be taken.
Again, it ain't like that dude. I meant that if you're gonna be a part of whatever it is we build, you're gonna have to fall in line with our value-system. Mike already said he's only in if the prime focus is us as a group, the relationships first and foremost. Tom and I also share this ideal, and I think its safe to say Matt and Kev do too. You're welcome to drop by as a guest anytime but I can see we will all drift apart from you gradually as you integrate into XBL and we go our seperate way with what we do.
With regards to playing you, if you think no-one will want to fight you, that only strengthens my main point. It's not because we can't hack losing over and over. In fact, when you stopped giving me voluntary advice, and we played, I gradually loosened up, and felt more at ease. When we played MK on mics I had a great time and we had a good laugh. It felt like casuals for the first time.
Dictator wrote:Honestly, I don't really know what you've been writing in the last page or so if you still haven't spoken abou the main issues you think the members of this clan have with me. Speak on and I'll listen, but make it your final post because tbh I've really had it with all this hidey hidey bullshit. You and anyone else who has a problem with me want to speak up and let me know? Here's your chance. Write everything you want about any problem you have and stop lurking in the shadows saying "I'd tell him this and that" and maybe then we can work together to solve our problems. This isn't towards anyone, I'm saying this generally.
No boogeymen. Just men having a useful and honest conversation. So, what do you feel people?
Again, I have to say it ain't like that dude. No one is out to get you and we this isn't about anyone but you. Inviting everyone to come dump all the problems they have with you, on you, isn't going to solve anything. This isn't (or shouldn't be) about confrontation, or attacking/defending positions. The problems are not all the seperate incidents, the problem is how your values align with ours. I wanna discuss it, see if you can't see what I see, and whether your friendship with everyone here is more important to you than being good at games and winiing. Everyone can see you have good intentions, but I think your methods work against those intentions.
I'll finish by inviting anyone to speak up if they want to agree or disagree with anything I've said, or how I've represented the general feelings of people.